Christine

The story about how you were basically homeless I wanted to share with my husband’s niece. She is 21 years of age.
When I read the part about the parents who were “blood suckers” - it truly raised a few hairs for me. I felt very much this way with this little spoiled brat, if I may say. I’m sure she views me this way.
The problem is she has to go and we kicked her out.
Wow! It hurt to do that. She has been her for 11 months.
She’s a shop-aholic and no one can tell her what to do. We brought her here from Chicago to help her start a college career. We put a down payment on a brand new car, and paid for her first semester in college. All to find out after six or seven months, she was not going and just using us for all she could. She’s never had to spend a dime here. Never lifts a finger unless asked. It’s been a tough one for me because I cannot take her by the shoulders and shake her. She’s not my kid.

If there were a way that she could read half of what you wrote about, I think she could find some value in what we’ve been providing her. I’m not so sure she can persevere through the tough times like you did. She’s moving in with her bro and he asked for $250 per month to help with the rent and utilities. “She asked him if he was going to make a profit off of her!” I almost laughed. This is her mind set.
So, I wish kids would take the time to read valuable information such as yours. Your could help the world!

Thanks for your interest!
Michele

As far as unemployment is concerned, I almost feel as if I am. The housing market for designers has dropped off the planet here in OC. I started my business out of my home about ten years ago, moved n to a small office after two years and then on to a larger office that was beautifully designed. I recently had to come back to the home. I’ve been in mourning for the past few months and coming out of it. I built a nice business. We were growing and then, Wham! The industry fell apart. We’re all in the same boat as it has trickled in to many other areas. I’m desperately seeking ways to improve the conditions for myself.

My son started me on the blogging last year. I finally understand about sharing and joining up with others. Thanks for sharing. I will implement many of your ideas. It’s time for me to “Rock On!”