Our society has taught for years that only the young can do … when you’re old, you can’t. In 99% of the cases sited … even running a marathon, this is just unadulterated hogwash.

Whether you will or you won’t is your decision, but a tag line I often use is, “Do not tell me you Can’t”.

Another word we should think of banning is “try”. As Yoda once wisely intoned, “Do, or Do Not, there is no Try.”

And yes, it is fascinating how people become defensive (and often pass into an attack mode) when you start to poke around their beliefs.

The problem is that people like self-pity, like to wallow in despair and project their own problems and shortcomings onto others. Even for the smallest things! This is in most cases because of laziness. Acknowledging that something is wrong with our own selves or that we are at the root of most of our own problems is half of the battle. Yep, but people won’t do it, because then they wouldn’t have any pretext not to move their lazy asses and actually do something to improve themselves.

That’s the reason I never ever listen to any whiners. Energy leeches and losers.

With no income at present, these sites hit home with me as to how my thinking was blocking my needed actions to get out of my situation, that I have put myself into.

With future calls from debtors, I will definitely have different responses for them. (More steps that I will take, to take care of my debt to them, instead of I “can’t” see where the money will come from.)

Taking responsibility for my previous “can’ts”, will help me get ideas to finding a way or many ways to control what actions got me into this mess.

Now, on to finding those ways…..

Thanks for the word to eliminate…